An Online Student’s Life on the Teeter-Totter
Posted by Pamela Gustafson on January 29th, 2009
One of my favorite pieces of playground equipment was the teeter-totter. I used to spend hours going up and down with my siblings or friends. Occasionally we would stop moving by sitting in such away that the long board of the teeter-totter was balanced, and we could relax and talk. Relaxing was good but the ride was better.
I thrive on activity. The more the teeter-totter goes up and down the happier I am. There is a down side to this love of activity. I am the queen of overcommitting. One day someone from church called and asked me to be on another committee. My husband answered this call and I heard him say, “If she signs up for one more thing I will have to put her in a psychiatric hospital. “ He didn’t pass the phone to me and pretended I wasn’t home.
There were two things that really worked for me in regards to the time management of my over committed life, early mornings and weekends. I scheduled my assignments and preparation for my own students so that I did the bulk of this commitment leisurely on weekends. I bounced out of bed every day an hour or two before my two children to check my online classes and to respond to emails or posts from other class members. I didn’t always need all this time, but it established a routine. I worked ahead in the class if I finished before I needed to get my children going and me to my job. I saved my work in Microsoft Word to post later on. At the beginning of each online class I entered due dates into Yahoo calendar. I scheduled the calendar to send me an email two days before the assignment was due, and then another email reminder the day it was due.
Evenings were reserved for my children. I wasn’t going to entrust them to others all day and leave them with babysitters at night, although they were in school full time before I took online classes. My eldest was a night owl and it was difficult to get him to calm down and even more difficult to get him up the next morning. I would often fall asleep on the couch before he was quiet for the night. There was no way I was going to do online class work at this time. Even if I did outlast my son’s ride on his teeter-totter, I was too exhausted to keep playing on mine.
Parenting means that you have to put your own needs on hold. I didn’t play bridge or have much of a social life. My children quickly morphed into productive and happy adults. I am glad they were my priority during their formative years. I can’t get those years back. The online classes are still there.
The teeter-totter of my life now involves a full time teaching job and private tutoring at night to pay for my daughter’s college tuition. Because of a predisposition to high cholesterol and my body’s rejection of statin drugs, my morning computer time has been replaced by 45 minutes to an hour of working out on an elliptical machine in my basement. I watch the morning news and after my old muscles have warmed up I actually enjoy this new routine. Now I work on any classes I take, for an hour or two in the late evening or early evening on the days I don’t tutor. I usually don’t work in the summer so it is prime time for me to schedule online classes. Without my children the teeter-totter has slowed and I still enjoy the ride.
